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Sep 2020
1h 21m

Big Sister Hotline: Episode 30, Feat. AI...

BIG SISTER HOTLINE WITH CLEMENTINE FORD
About this episode

Hello friends and sisters! This week's episode is all about the hellscape that is online dating, and joining me to navigate it is guest big sister Aileen Quinn, aka the genius behind the instagram account Tinder Translators (@tindertranslators, follow her and do yourselves a flavour).


We talk about the trash that is online dating and specifically the trash cis-het men get away with on dating apps. We also discuss how to define what it is you want in a relationship and why naming rights with children IS a feminist issue. This is a robust and full bodied discussion friends, so it's a BUMPER EPISODE. Not only is it longer than usual (because I didn't want to cut any of it) but we have an additional BONUS QUESTION that I will be uploading separately because it was actually extremely serious and triggering. So we're going to give you some space to listen to that at your leisure. I'll share the additional content later tomorrow.


In the meantime, tune in here to have a good old fashioned natter about how patriarchy impacts our dating choices and why marriage is bad for women!


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