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Jun 2021
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19 How Not Horny (Irene Tu)

REMY KASSIMIR
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We're talking to stand-up comedian and actor Irene Tu, who has NEVER had an orgasm and is probably okay with that! Irene tells us about how she is "almost never horny" and how the societal pressure for her to cum lead to her going down a rabbit hole that nearly ruined her life. Irene shares with us why she feels she may be Asexual, though she does want companionship, and we discuss the importance of emotional intimacy and foreplay leading up to a sexual experience. We hear about why she prefers giving orgasms to receiving them, and if she thinks SHE could date someone who doesn't cum. Finally we discuss constantly crushing, Irene's  coming out story, and Remy receives a rec*mmendation from Irene! 

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