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Aug 2016
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Not So Sexy Episode 4 - The Ask

Not So Sexy
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Asking for sex can be hard. It can be weird and there isn't really a road map for it.

This week we bring on Nicole and Rafe to talk about asking for sex. It turns out that it's not as easy as we thought. Also communication. Shocker!

 

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