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Jun 2021
51m 33s

The inside the box thinking that keeps y...

PAUL COLAIANNI
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Many unresolved emotions sit outside the box of current thinking. Albert Einstein said, “We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.” When you aren't getting the results you want today, or you find yourself easily triggered by certain events or people, you may be carrying around old baggage that perhaps requires a level ... Show More
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