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Jun 2021
1h 44m

5 Keys to Find & Create the Perfect Rela...

Lewis Howes
About this episode

“Love expands when our capacity to accept each other expands.” - DeVon Franklin

Today’s episode is a special one. We’ve had a lot of great conversations with guests about relationships and we wanted to put together a mashup of the best segments to help you take your relationship to the next level whether you’re single, in a new relationship or are in a long-term relationship.

In this episode Lewis discussed with our guests why relationships are changing now more than ever, how we’ve been sold a myth about marriage, how to rewrite the stories that are holding you back from accepting love, how to build the foundation for a strong relationship, the biggest factors that help you become a more desirable partner, and so much more!

FIRST SECTION:

In this section, Psychotherapist Esther Perel talks about how the roles, rules and expectations in our relationships are changing now more than ever and how we can work through that to find the right type of partner.

SECOND SECTION:

In this section, Best-Selling Author DeVon Franklin talks about why we’ve been sold a myth about marriage.

THIRD SECTION:

In this section, Therapist Lori Gottlieb talks about redefining the stories about yourself that are holding you back from finding and accepting real love.

FOURTH SECTION:

In this section, Pastor Michael Todd shares how to build a strong foundation in the beginning of a relationship and how to do the work to be a better partner.

FIFTH SECTION:

In this section, Relationship Expert Matthew Hussey shares what factors we should focus on in our life that will make you a more desirable partner.

For more go to: www.lewishowes.com/1122

Our guest's most recent The School of Greatness episodes:

Esther Perel: www.lewishowes.com/929

DeVon Franklin: www.lewishowes.com/1106

Lori Gottlieb: www.lewishowes.com/1013

Pastor Michael Todd: www.lewishowes.com/1087

Matthew Hussey: www.lewishowes.com/944

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