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Nov 2020
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34 Womb Havers (Ashley Gavin + Gara Lonn...

REMY KASSIMIR
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Why don't cis men know about the flat tongue technique, and why won't some people take advice once you tell them how you like it?  We're breaking it down with the host of ‘We’re Having Gay Sex’, Ashley Gavin and her 'Youth in the Booth' Gara Lonning. These two hilarious comedians discuss how their podcast blew up and how Gara keeps Ashley from getting cancelled. Gara gives us tips on being in an open relationship while Ashley gives some advice on her favored techniques for giving oral, and shines a light on common mistakes people make when going down on a vulva. Finally, everyone talks about their grooming situations, and how showered or un-showered they want a partner to be before going south. 

 

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