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Nov 2020
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32 Jokes by Survivors (Dylan Adler + Kel...

REMY KASSIMIR
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Trigger warning: Rape/Trauma/PTSD/Assault

This week we are joined by Dylan Adler and Kelly Bachman, standup comedians and co-hosts of “Rape Jokes by Survivors.” Dylan and Kelly tell us about their individual experiences as rape survivors; how they cope and heal, how doing comedy and starting their show helped them to see themselves as survivors rather than victims, and finally their new music video about how extremely horny they both are. 

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