Over the years, I've witnessed dozens of people set themselves up for failure by following seemingly wise advice -
"When you set a goal, make it public and tell everybody you know so that they can support you."
In my experience, that hasn't worked so well - especially on long-term goals. The reason is that anybody outside of my close relationships doesn't ... Show More
May 1
Ask This Magic Question Today
Happy Friday, my friend. I want to share a question with you that I haven’t pulled out in seven or eight years. It’s a little neuro-linguistic programming trick I learned from a textbook decades ago, and it works almost every time you use it. This week, it cracked open a member o ... Show More
13m 39s
Apr 30
The Day You Think You Have Nothing
Have you ever sat down to do what you love and felt your mind go blank? I felt it 40 minutes before recording. The promise was simple, the list ready. Then, nothing. The main lesson: when your mind feels blank, the problem isn't a lack of options—it’s that you’re not seeing them. ... Show More
14m 5s
Apr 29
Motivation Doesn't Work? Tell That to Your Dopamine
Have you heard that motivation is irrelevant—that only discipline, identity, or systems matter for adults? After thirty years in this field, I've repeatedly seen that the loudest critics end up seeking a boost themselves. Today, I'll show how claims of the demise of motivation ac ... Show More
16 m
Jun 2023
The Problem With Your Relationships
<p>Welcome to todays episode of The Mindset Mentor Podcast, where today… we dive into a very sneaky, yet common, and serious problem that most people don’t even realize they have. </p>
<p>Before you listen, ask yourself this question: Who do you consider a real friend? What chara ... Show More
17m 5s
Aug 2021
What Is Your Problem? | E263
Are you getting pressured, guilted, or blamed into taking responsibility for other people's problems? Understanding where your sphere of personal responsibility stops, and where someone else’s starts is vital to setting healthy boundaries with clarity and confidence. So, what ... Show More
1h 1m
Oct 2022
Ep 182: Codependency in Relationships – Stepping back from a habit of controlling
This is an episode for anyone who is spending a whole lot of time and energy fixated on the habits, thoughts, or faults of a person they have a relationship with. Maybe that is a partner, parent, friend or a sibling. Regardless, this relationship is lopsided: you do all the thing ... Show More
39m 48s
Mar 2022
194: Build a Culture of Accountability
<p>Accountability, when done right, isn't about exerting power or authority. It’s not about enforcing punishments or negative consequences. Instead, it’s about making sure that everyone does what they commit to doing through shared responsibility for success. Managers who do this ... Show More
13m 23s
May 2021
It's not your fault, but it is your responsibility
Everything in my life is my responsibility. This is my mantra and it has served me my entire life.I talk openly about my past; about the sexual abuse, growing up with a mother with bipolar, being in the foster system, my husband dying. It’s a lot... and none of it was my fault. B ... Show More
15m 52s
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