#24 Between Selflessness and Selfishness

I know how easy it is to get stuck in your own head, second-guessing everything you do or say. The fear of being wrong, of not being good enough, can quietly shut you down. But you don’t have to be perfect to show up. You don’t have to be certain to take a step forward. In this e ... Show More

Have you ever felt like you’ve lost a part of yourself—your fire, your creativity, your essence—because of the expectations and rules imposed on you? In this episode, we explore the hidden cost of fitting in, how we give up our power without realizing it, and why reclaiming your ... Show More

Being true to yourself comes at a price. Sometimes, it means facing confrontation, standing at a crossroads with those you care about, or resisting the pressure to conform. But what happens when you suppress who you are? In this episode, we explore the struggle of self-expression ... Show More

Self-care isn't selfish. Not being your energetic, best self is taking away from other people as well as you! 

It's possible to be self-aware to some degree and still be unhappy and unfulfilled. And while self-awareness has many benefits, it is, by itself, not the point. This is how you can cultivate and develop healthy self-awareness in your own life. 

One of the most complicated relationship we have is the relationship to ourselves and then we wonder why we struggle in our relationship to others…if we can’t even be with ourselves, how and why do we expect others to? Why self-love- you make the world a better place and free the ... Show More

One of the most complicated relationship we have is the relationship to ourselves and then we wonder why we struggle in our relationship to others…if we can’t even be with ourselves, how and why do we expect others to? Why self-love- you make the world a better place and free the ... Show More

Showing yourself kindness becomes even more important during life's difficult moments, and the current pandemic certainly qualifies. Learn why it’s a misconception that you need to be tough on yourself to succeed, and how practicing self-compassion can make you even more resilien ... Show More

In this episode, we're discussing the important topic of self-kindness, specifically for those who tend to be self-critical. It's all too easy to fall into the trap of negative self-talk and self-blame, but learning to treat ourselves with kindness and compassion is key to buildi ... Show More

This episode explores the topic of the ego. What is ego? What part of me is really me? When we view ourselves and others as independent and permanent, we tend to view ourselves as finished products rather than works in progress. The reality is that the sense of self is an illusio ... Show More

What does it mean to be selfless? In Gyomay Kubose's essay on selflessness he mentions that "Buddhism is the way of selflessness", but what does that really mean? In this episode, I will explore the topic of selflessness and how our sense of self is always relative. Understanding ... Show More

If you want to kill your selfishness, focus on more than your selfishness. Fill your soul to overflowing with Christ. 

are you struggling with self love and find yourself falling back to self sabotaging behaviours ? If so, it's time for you to understand what's actually driving you towards these behaviours and how you continue to stay in the cycle of self hate. It's time for you to get introduced ... Show More