If I Speak

71: If I’m so angry then why am I crying?!

70: Can you ever change what you want?

69: Is marriage a hard border? w/ Jeremy Atherton Lin

68: Help! My housemate is a pig

67: What’s up with Generation Alpha?

66: I’m right, you’re wrong, end of!

65: Has your smartphone broken your brain?

64: What is the female gaze?

55: Joy is an act of resistance… right?

54: Forget the boycott, gimme that brand deal

63: Do people just want to be told what to do?

62: I’m not sure I want to call myself a feminist anymore…

61: Can friendships cross class lines? w/ Natasha Brown

60: Are we too addicted to convenience?

59: Does my ex owe me money for the house we renovated?

58: I want to be fun again. Help!

57: Do you really want to know about your partner’s past mistakes?

57: Do you really want to know about your partner’s past mistakes?

56: The one where Moya grills Ash on her new book

55: Joy is an act of resistance… right?

54: Forget the boycott, gimme that brand deal

53: Getting ‘the ick’

52: Happy birthday IIS! Now ask us anything…

51: Am I feminine enough for you?

50: The return of the slur

49: We need to see more wrinkles on screen!

48: Is it time to cut off my lying dad?

47: Is the era of public shaming over? w/ Yomi Adegoke at London Podcast Festival

46: Porn is everywhere. How damaging is it really?

45: Surviving end-of-year burnout

44. How to deal with people who can’t deal with you

43: How far would you go to be yourself? w/ Amrou Al-Kadhi

42: Why won’t they just break up?

41: When do good habits become dark obsessions?

40: Do aesthetic trends offer clues to political shifts?

39: I’m in big trouble! Your dilemmas answered

38: Why is Andrew Tate’s manosphere so seductive? w/ Matt Shea and Jamie Tahsin

37: Do you believe in ghosts?

36: Should being a girlboss earn me a break from cleaning?

35: Help! My scatty friends can’t meet my standards

34: How mean can you be to other people’s kids?

33: What makes you embarrassed to be leftwing?

32: What makes a house a home?

31: Why isn’t my best friend excited about my wedding?

30: Unbothered, moisturised, happy – and ready for a relationship?

A message from Moya…

29. Has therapyspeak improved our lives?

28: What the hell is a gut feeling, anyway?

27: I’m in big trouble! Your dilemmas answered

26: I’m so sorry, I’m English