If I Speak

89: Am I doomed to get more conservative as I get older?

88: What are the ethics of oversharing?

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87: I’m losing interest in my fiancée. Should she make more effort?

86: Why do we lap up other people’s horror stories?

85: Has pop culture turned to slop? w/ Kemi Alemoru

84: How to ace a first date (by two very different daters)

83: Is jealousy the spice of life?

82: Help! I can’t stop hating men

81: Is it wrong to love my AI boyfriend?

80: September is the real new year. Will your resolution stick this time?

79: Help! I’ve moved back home and now my mum hates me

78: What does it take to feel safe?

77: What’s the difference between a girl and a woman?

76: How porn went mainstream and changed everything w/ Sophie Gilbert

75: The world needs more flirting. Here’s how

74: Can your racial identity change over time?

73: Where did it all go wrong on the dancefloor?

72: Why does it always have to be me taking responsibility?

71: If I’m so angry then why am I crying?!

70: Can you ever change what you want?

69: Is marriage a hard border? w/ Jeremy Atherton Lin

68: Help! My housemate is a pig

67: What’s up with Generation Alpha?

66: I’m right, you’re wrong, end of!

65: Has your smartphone broken your brain?

64: What is the female gaze?

63: Do people just want to be told what to do?

62: I’m not sure I want to call myself a feminist anymore…

61: Can friendships cross class lines? w/ Natasha Brown

60: Are we too addicted to convenience?

59: Does my ex owe me money for the house we renovated?

58: I want to be fun again. Help!

57: Do you really want to know about your partner’s past mistakes?

57: Do you really want to know about your partner’s past mistakes?

56: The one where Moya grills Ash on her new book

55: Joy is an act of resistance… right?

55: Joy is an act of resistance… right?

54: Forget the boycott, gimme that brand deal

54: Forget the boycott, gimme that brand deal

53: Getting ‘the ick’

52: Happy birthday IIS! Now ask us anything…

51: Am I feminine enough for you?

50: The return of the slur

49: We need to see more wrinkles on screen!

48: Is it time to cut off my lying dad?

47: Is the era of public shaming over? w/ Yomi Adegoke at London Podcast Festival

46: Porn is everywhere. How damaging is it really?

45: Surviving end-of-year burnout

44. How to deal with people who can’t deal with you