Why Dating Sucks

Being patient with an avoidant doesn't save the connection - it often kills attraction.Dating expert Lucia explains why attraction fades when you're waiting, being understanding, and "not putting pressure on it". If you've been trying to stay calm and do the right thing while not ... Show More

When you've been dumped, the urge to chase can feel overwhelming, especially if you still want your ex back.Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains what actually changes when you stop chasing your ex, and why pulling back often shifts the dynamic in ways chasing never can.Get c ... Show More

You've been in no contact and after weeks - or even months - of silence, your ex suddenly texts you. What does it actually mean, and should you respond right away or wait?Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals why exes reach out during no contact, what they're really looking fo ... Show More

Dating apps are the worst invention ever, according to Caroline. Are people on dating apps for sex or love? Caroline dives deep in to the world of dating, dating apps and why being single isn’t ACTUALLY a bad thing (mic drop). Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https:/ ... Show More

<p>I can’t tell you how many times a week someone online says to me: “Matthew, I’ve had enough. I’m just going to give up on dating altogether.” It may be because they are sick of getting their heart broken. It may be that they are exhausted from going on dates that don’t go anyw ... Show More

So what’s the hardest part about dating? Meeting people? Making conversation? Figuring out if there’s enough chemistry? How do you have dates that leave you happy, aligned and energized, rather than defeated and hopeless? On today’s best-of show, I’m here for your dating dilemmas ... Show More

<p>Dating is a lot of work! It is all too easy to end up discouraged & want to give up because someone else has once again not followed through & just disappeared. Family & friends often don't appreciate how painful & difficult the process of dating can be. There is so much press ... Show More

On this week’s episode, Jared starts with a story about being on his phone at the bar. The first emailer asks how she can slow down the pace of dating. How can she get out of the cycle of going from first date to “Willy Wonka grandparents” with the guys she’s dating? The Awkward ... Show More

Does online dating feel more like a game and less like a process of finding your right person? Dr. Rachel Vanderbilt, the Relationship Doctor, explains why having too many choices in your dating apps may actually lead you to be less satisfied in your resulting relationships. 

If you don’t have a lot of experience in the dating world, how are you supposed to find the perfect guy? My answer: You’re NOT. Listen in as I explain how making mistakes in dating takes the pressure off and opens you up to ultimately find the guy who’s right for you.<hr><p style ... Show More