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Feb 2021
12m 40s

Are You Too Picky? High Standards vs Hig...

BREENY LEE
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Have you ever been told that you are just too picky when it comes to men? Your friends think that what you're asking for doesn't exist? Do people tell you to lower your expectations? Does that make you angry? I get it. Maybe they're right... BUT, lets see if you've been confusing your standards with expectations... Watch this episode at: https://www.youtube. ... Show More
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