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Oct 2013
21m 44s

Why is "bossy" a bad word?

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In the final installment of the "Lean In" series, Cristen and Caroline explore why "bossy" is a negative term typically applied to women and girls. As we strive for career advancement, how can women square success and likeability in the workplace, and is 
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