logo
episode-header-image
Nov 2020
26m 53s

Confronting Race on the First Date

The New York Times
About this episode
Andrew and Sarah met on a dating app. Their first date was just supposed to be coffee, but it lasted nine glorious hours. They talked nonstop across four San Francisco neighborhoods. But by 2 a.m., Sarah had an admission to make. She told Andrew, who is Asian-American, that his “race might be an issue.” Andrew was shocked. The kicker? Sarah is also Asian-A ... Show More
Up next
Oct 14
Does My Son Like His Stepmother More Than Me?
One thing that comforted Denise Ryan after her divorce was that she and her ex-husband still talked every day. Even though they lived apart, they were still co-parenting their son, Alexander, and they were constantly jumping on the phone to tell each other what he was up to at th ... Show More
48m 18s
Oct 7
How Alan Cumming Escaped His Father and Became Himself
The actor Alan Cumming is not the man his father wanted him to be. Growing up, Cumming says, his father had specific ideas about how he should look and what he should do with his life, ideas he enforced with abusive violence. However, Cumming tried to stay true to himself: As a t ... Show More
46m 39s
Sep 30
I’m Black, Even if You Don’t See it
For most of her life, Kelly McWilliams has felt as though people aren’t seeing her clearly. Kelly is biracial, and she was raised to be proud of her identity: she grew up surrounded by African American culture and literature. But when she walks into a room, a lot of people percei ... Show More
54m 38s
Recommended Episodes
Jul 2022
MIX | Love Is (Colour) Blind - Logesh & Rachel Kumaar #MIXBreakfast
Aishah, RD & Prem had a chat with Logesh & Rachel Kumaar, a Malaysian & American couple, about adapting to different cultures and racism they face in their interracial relationship. 
10m 19s
Mar 2025
No Borders, Just Love
Interracial dating—it's a hot topic, and Toni is ready to dive right in! Ever wondered what it’s really like from someone who’s been there? Toni sits down with her friend Afua for a raw and unfiltered chat about her experiences in the world of interracial dating. And in ‘Teatime ... Show More
56m 47s
Jul 2022
MIX | Love is (Colour) Blind - Sher & Denise #MIXBreakfast
Aishah, RD & Prem sat down with Sher and Denise, a Chinese Mualaf and Punjabi Muslim couple, to talk about the difficulties they had to go through as an interracial couple. 
7m 35s
Jul 2025
Second Date Update: Floral Intentions
One of our listeners tried out the dating app PLENTY OF FISH… and you’re not gonna believe what happened on her very first meet up!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. 
18m 21s
Jul 2025
Second Date Update: Floral Intentions
One of our listeners tried out the dating app PLENTY OF FISH… and you’re not gonna believe what happened on her very first meet up!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. 
17m 9s
Sep 2025
Second Date Update Classics: Italian Surprise + Mid Hookup
Part 1 One of our listeners said she met a guy the other night who almost got her ARRESTED. So why does she want another date with him?? Time to find out! Part 2 The woman on the phone says both she AND her date were asked to leave bar trivia over the most ridiculous reason, but ... Show More
36m 38s
Sep 2025
Second Date Update Classics: Italian Surprise + Mid Hookup
Part 1 One of our listeners said she met a guy the other night who almost got her ARRESTED. So why does she want another date with him?? Time to find out! Part 2 The woman on the phone says both she AND her date were asked to leave bar trivia over the most ridiculous reason, but ... Show More
36m 38s
Dec 2021
Encore: There's Just One Thing
<p>In this "rapid fire" episode, the Sugars read letters from four women who each have one not-so-tiny reservation about the men they’re dating. A Black woman is dating a white man who is unwilling to talk about race issues, claiming that she’s “too sensitive.” Another woman’s bo ... Show More
40m 40s