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Apr 2017
2h 43m

70: Overcoming Unspeakable Darkness. Pro...

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About this episode

0:00:00 - Opening

0:04:32 - Intro to Iris Gardner.

0:23:40 - Sexual Assault--First incident as a child.

0:39:59 - Tips to prevent abuse.  Why it's hard to come forward.

0:51:16 - Iris growing up with her abuser.

1:01:24 - Resulting relationships, the wrong path, and more Darkness.

1:13:11 - Bouncing back.  The beginning.

1:26:50 - Being a Military Wife - Emotional Independence, and tips to be have a successful relationship.

1:47:12 - How to Live a Happy Life after Abuse.

1:57:00 - Jocko's letter to his daughter.  Appreciate your mother.  

2:13:30 - Support, Cool Onnit, Amazon, JockoStore stuff, with Jocko White Tea and Psychological Warfare (on iTunes). Extreme Ownership (book), (Jocko's Kids' Book) Way of the Warrior Kid, and The Muster002 

2:40:28 - Closing Gratitude.

 

 

 

 



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