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Oct 2020
1h 5m

Dissatisfaction and Aspiration

Ali & Taimur Abdaal
About this episode

In this episode, we start by discussing an insight Ali had about the nature of dissatisfaction and setting overly high standards for ourselves. We then turn to the start of a book discussion, where Taimur explains some of the theories he’s been reading around our values, how they change and how ‘rational’ our decision-making really is.

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Your Standards Are Too High by Neel Nanda

Aspiration: The Agency of Becoming by Agnes Callard

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Not Overthinking is a podcast about happiness, creativity, and the human condition. We talk about things to help us think, do, and be better. Things like social interaction, lifestyle design, mental models...things that are hard to examine, but important to explore. And hopefully, things that make for a fun and interesting chat every week.

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