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May 2020
54m 13s

Couples Under Lockdown: Lagos, Nigeria

Esther Perel Global Media
About this episode
Last summer they left everything they'd built in Seattle for a chance at a very different life. He took a dream turn to expand his company and be closer to home; she gave up her nursing job to manage their girls and explore new horizons abroad. COVID-19 hits as they watch the fate of other countries, knowing if it reaches Nigeria with a population of more th ... Show More
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