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Sep 2020
1h 3m

Lady Game (w/ Sam Jay)

Headgum & Nicole Byer
About this episode

Comedian Sam Jay (writer at SNL) discusses how she met her girlfriend, the influence of wealth in a relationship, and the difference between flirting with men and women. Sam teaches Nicole about bad bitch energy, and how she developed her "lady game". Plus, why aren't interviewers asking White people about #BLM?

Check out Sam Jay's special on Netflix: netflix.com/title/81078802

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