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Aug 2019
20m 40s

The Night Girl Finds A Day Boy | With Lo...

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A lot of things can get in the way of love -- distance, money issues, being in different places in your life. But this week's essayist, Amanda Gefter, writes about facing a very different kind of challenge. It's read by Logan Browning (Netflix's "Dear White People"). 
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