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Jul 2020
48m 54s

Romeo & Juliet In Rwanda

Hidden Brain, Shankar Vedantam
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How do you change someone's behavior? Most of us would point to education or persuasion. But what if the answer lies elsewhere? This week, we revisit a 2018 story about human nature and behavior change — a story that will take us on a journey from Budapest to the hills of Rwanda. 
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