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Jul 2019
53m 11s

You 2.0: The Empathy Gym

Hidden Brain, Shankar Vedantam
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Some people are good at putting themselves in another person's shoes. Others may struggle to relate. But psychologist Jamil Zaki argues that empathy isn't a fixed trait. This week: how to exercise our empathetic muscles. It's the first episode in our You 2.0 summer series.

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