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May 2018
27m 33s

Kinder-Gardening

Hidden Brain, Shankar Vedantam
About this episode
Many parents think they can shape their child into a particular kind of adult. Psychologist Alison Gopnik says the science suggests otherwise. This week, we revisit our December 2017 conversation with Gopnik, who thinks we'd all be better off if we had a different understanding of the relationship between parents and kids. 
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