If you've ever flown in economy class on a plane, you probably had to walk through the first class cabin to get to your seat. Maybe you noticed the extra leg room. The freshly-poured champagne. Maybe you were annoyed, or envious. Social psychologist Keith Payne says we tend to compare ourselves with those who have more than us, but rarely with those who have ... Show More
Jun 2025
The psychology of wealth, empathy and entitlement, with Paul Piff, PhD
Can money make you mean? Most of us like to think we’d stay grounded if we were to become wealthy, but psychologists’ research suggests that money, status and power shape people’s beliefs and behavior – sometimes in surprising ways. Paul Piff, PhD, of the University of California ... Show More
44 m
Mar 2025
Why It Is So Hard To Be a Wealthy Man
Get ready to see a side of wealth that no one tells you about.In this eye-opening exploration, we break down the unseen burdens of wealth—from transactional relationships and social judgment to the constant demand to provide more. Why do so many wealthy men feel alone, unseen, an ... Show More
14m 38s
May 2017
288. Are the Rich Really Less Generous Than the Poor?
<p>A series of academic studies suggest that the wealthy are, to put it bluntly, selfish jerks. It's an easy narrative to swallow — but is it true? A trio of economists set out to test the theory. All it took was a Dutch postal worker's uniform, some envelopes stuffed with cash, ... Show More
42m 24s
Sep 2024
Why is talking about money and class so awkward?! (w/ Jonathan Menjivar)
How often do you know your friends’ exact salaries? For most of us, the answer is almost never. Yet, in our everyday lives and interactions, we notice the many small cues that make our class differences obvious. So why does talking about money create such an uncomfortable, cringe ... Show More
37m 13s
Dec 2022
61. Why we compare ourselves to others
This week we discuss social comparison, the good, the bad, the psychology. We talk about why it is that we compare ourselves to others, the impacts of social comparison and how to break the cycle of judging our attributes and characteristics compared to others.See omnystudio.com/ ... Show More
30m 31s
Sep 2025
424. Turning Compare & Despair Into Motivation & Inspiration
Ever felt that gut punch when you see someone else living the life you want? Maybe they’ve landed your dream job, bought your ideal house, or achieved the business success you’re chasing. It feels awful—like proof that you’ll never get there.In this episode, I’m showing you how t ... Show More
13m 59s