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Nov 2015
33m 6s

Episode 7: Lonely Hearts

Hidden Brain, Shankar Vedantam
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Jesse always wanted to fall in love. So when the perfect woman started writing him letters, it seemed too good to be true. Because it was. This week, a story about a con — with a twist. When the con was exposed, its victims defended the con artists. They still wanted to believe the lie. 
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