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Dec 2017
27m 33s

Kinder-Gardening

Hidden Brain, Shankar Vedantam
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Many parents think they can shape their child into a particular kind of adult. Psychologist Alison Gopnik says the science suggests otherwise. She thinks we'd all be better off if we had a different understanding of the relationship between parents and kids. 
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