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Jun 2020
1h 6m

How to Date Virtually (w/ Jinkx Monsoon)

Headgum & Nicole Byer
About this episode

"Sex is always better when you can be yourself during it"

Jinkx Monsoon (Winner of Rupaul's Drag Race S5) dishes about fulfilling race chaser fantasies, heteronormative roleplay, how their Grindr use has changed since being on Drag Race, and so much more. Also, Nicole shares the only appropriate time to yell 'NAILED IT' at her.

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