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Sep 2019
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Breaking Up (w/ Paul F. Tompkins)

Headgum & Nicole Byer
About this episode

"I was at a point where I was like... I never sorta played the field and had fun. I'm gonna do that now."

Paul F. Tompkins (Between Two Ferns: The Movie, Threedom podcast) discusses how he met his wife, having fun in his thirties, and if you should break up over the phone. Plus, Nicole had sex and is very excited to share all about it.

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