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Nov 11
1h 42m

He Slept With Someone Else Before We Wer...

BETCHES MEDIA
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Happy Anniversary to U Up? and J&J! It’s officially 9 years of taping the podcast! They are going back in time and revisiting some of their earliest dating advice from 2017. Will they agree with their former selves? They revisit questions like whether calling your parents every night is a red flag, dating someone who has never said “I love you,” getting caug ... Show More
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