Empathy is facing a growing public backlash. Elon Musk has called it "the fundamental weakness of Western civilization," while evangelical bestsellers such as Toxic Empathy and The Sin of Empathy portray compassion as a liability. In the manosphere, empathy is often dismissed as weakness. Conflict mediator Doug Noll acknowledges that empathy without boundaries can be harmful: "Drowning in 'bleeding-heart, 'feel-everything' empathy is a liability." But he argues the answer isn't to harden our hearts. Instead, empathy should be treated as a disciplined, trainable skill that respects everyone's boundaries and dignity. Affect labeling—recognizing and naming another person's emotion—can help calm the nervous system in about 90 seconds. Noll is a Distinguished Fellow of the International Academy of Mediators, co-founder of Prison of Peace, and adjunct professor at Pepperdine University's Strauss Institute for Dispute Resolution.