What if the world could tell you were a follower of Jesus – not by what you post, but by how you live? Pastor Nirup Alphonse, lead pastor of LIFEGATE Church in Denver, joins Dave and Ashley to talk about his brand-new book Defiant Lights and why ordinary Christians are called to live noticeably different from the culture around them. He unpacks the seven cou ... Show More
Yesterday
Meet the Team: 35 Years of Marriage Wisdom from Aliya Scott
In this special bonus episode, Dave and Ashley take you behind the scenes at XO Marriage to introduce Aliya Scott – a team member of seven years and, as Dave puts it, part of the glue that holds the ministry together. Married 35 years, Aliya shares how she and her husband met at ... Show More
11m 49s
Oct 5
How to Stay on the Same Team When Life Gets Heavy with Joel & Emily Malm
After years of adventure, ministry, and moving around the world together, Joel and Emily Malm learned that even good things can become too heavy to carry. They join Dave and Ashley to talk about recognizing when your spouse is overwhelmed, making space for conversations, and lear ... Show More
37m 17s
Nov 2025
episode 5: marriage beyond your pinterest board + honest q&a
hi everyone welcome back or welcome to the as you are podcast! this episode I talk about a few things I’ve learned in the last 2 years of being married and the truths behind marriage and things to prepare for beforehand, such as communication, love languages, unlearning, healing ... Show More
39m 54s
Sep 2022
Having Sex Without Feeling Guilty
On this episode we are answering the question: How do I approach the subject of wanting to have sex to my exhausted wife? My wife is exhausted, up with the kids, keeping the house clean, etc. How can I approach the topic of wanting to have sex with her in the midst of all of this ... Show More
15m 2s
Feb 2022
Christian Men Answer Your Q's About Love, Romance, and Sex
Send a textEp. 064 - We're bringing in the men to answer your questions. This is a special day and it calls for a special episode. Today we're hearing from Kristen, Zack, Bethany and Dav. They're bringing us some married wisdom about all things love, romance, dating and sex. Whet ... Show More
39m 14s
Dec 2023
Guilt, Relationships, & Your Best Friend’s BF
You ask, we answer.
In this episode, we’re answer your DM’s like:
—What to do when your friend is dating someone you don’t think she should be dating
—How to get over guilt & shame from mistakes
—Handling conflict & hard relationships
—Waiting on a ring when you feel ready befo ... Show More
56m 35s