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Stop "Fixing" and Start Listening to You...

XO Podcast Network, Dave Willis, Ashley Willis
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When your spouse shares a problem, simply asking "do you just want me to listen, or do you want solutions?" can transform how connected you both feel. This one small question helps you meet your partner's real need instead of accidentally making them feel dismissed. _______________ We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and ... Show More
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