Send us Fan Mail Raised Mennonite, Ray Dalton spent years in the catering and food industry before the 2008 financial crash pushed him toward an unlikely career change: entering gay porn at 40. Ray joins Demystifying Gay Porn to talk about that transition, his years as an adult performer, sobriety, sex and aging, and his evolution from porn star to event org ... Show More
Sep 17
S5E4: Christopher Rage, My Masters & Scott O’Hara | Going Deeper Into Gay Adult Film History
Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Demystifying Gay Porn, we take on three of the more challenging—and ultimately insightful—stories we’ve explored: filmmaker Christopher Rage, his notorious film My Masters, and the complicated life and legacy of Scott O’Hara.Together, they offer ... Show More
26m 55s
Jun 25
S5E3: Jean-Daniel Cadinot / His film Harem: Sex Bazaar (1984) / Rod Garetto
Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Demystifying Gay Porn, we're taking a closer look at one of the most influential filmmakers in gay adult cinema, Jean-Daniel Cadinot, whose intimate, cinematic approach helped redefine French gay pornography. We also explore one of his most cele ... Show More
23m 24s
Apr 2026
S5E2: The David SF Interview
Send us Fan MailDavid SF, also known as David Wichman is an award-winning author whose work is shaped by nearly two decades as a sex worker—bringing a rare, unfiltered perspective to conversations around desire, intimacy, and shame. His writing doesn’t sanitize the experience; ra ... Show More
32m 7s
Mar 2025
Porn Star Confessions - Allen Silver (Episode 187)
This time on Porn Star Confessions I interview Pornstar Allen Silver about his life growing up, coming out, surviving the AIDS epidemic, his relationships, being a sacred intimate, how and why he got into the industry, overcoming shame, his previous jobs, and his plans for the fu ... Show More
1h 32m
Jul 2025
Porn Star Confessions - Holden The Top (Episode 210)
This time on Porn Star Confessions I interviewed PornstarHolden the Top about his life growing up, coming out, marriage, open relationships, the education system, working in customer service, his long term goals, AI, sexual preferences, and the importance of consistency. Please l ... Show More
1h 43m
May 2024
Porn Star Confessions - Ariel Demure (Episode 106)
This time on porn star confessions I interview porn star Ariel Demure about how she got into the industry, her life growing up, her transition, her drive and ambition, her exciting new project, dating, and her plans for the future. Please let us know your thoughts and if you have ... Show More
1h 52m