A new gay sauna is raising eyebrows with a policy excluding men over 55—and suggesting they visit its “more relaxed” sister location instead. But who decided turning 55 means you’re ready to slow down?
In this episode, the hosts unpack the blatant ageism behind the policy and question why gay culture continues to treat youth as the ultimate currency. Steve ... Show More
Sep 17
Hank Social: Kink, Community and Connection Beyond the Hookup EP 793
Also discussed: Why Hank Social was created and what was missing from existing gay apps The difference between a social community and a traditional hookup platform Creating spaces for leather, pups, rubber, gear and other fetish communities Balancing sexual expression with friend ... Show More
58m 52s
Sep 10
Drunk, Glamorous and Full of Stories with Maria Van Cartier EP 791
In this episode: Maria Van Cartier brings the glamour, humor, and unforgettable stories. The importance of documenting and preserving queer history. How New York City nightlife creates community and chosen family. Making space for the stories of Black and Brown queer people. What ... Show More
58m 56s
Sep 3
Drawn to Desire: Inside the Erotic Art of Miguel Angel Reyes EP 790
In this episode: • When Miguel first discovered his artistic voice • Celebrating the sensuality and diversity of men’s bodies • The line between erotic art, pornography, and fine art • Creating intimacy and trust between an artist and his subject • Body confidence, aging, vulnera ... Show More
1 h
Jul 2025
Safe Words & Spankings: Inside The Kinky Coaching Bedroom
Ready for a whip-smart convo that’ll tie you up in all the best ways? 😉 Miss Kay returns with her pal Stacy to talk about launching her “Top to Bottom Coaching” biz, and honey—it’s hot. They chat about newbies, naughty goals, kink confidence, and how exploring pleasure can unloc ... Show More
34m 45s
Jun 2025
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<p> We’re dropping in with an episode from <em>Sex Ed with DB</em>, a podcast all about inclusive, pleasure-focused sex ed. In this episode, host Danielle Bezalel sits down with Dr. Emily Nagoski — bestselling author of <em>Come As You Are</em> — to talk about what it really take ... Show More
51m 55s
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