Welcome back to Off Track, the space where I speak unscripted, unfiltered and straight from the heart. No guests, no scripts, just honest reflections shaped by real conversations and real life. This week’s episode was inspired by my conversation with Sally Moussa Hajjar, and one simple thing she said that stuck with me: just tell people what you actually want.
What Do You Really Want?
Every conversation has an agenda. But how often is the stated agenda actually the real agenda?
We see it in performance reviews, client meetings, friendships and relationships. We talk around what we really want, avoid the elephant in the room and then wonder why we walk away disappointed. In this episode, I explore something I use regularly in my communication coaching: understanding your real agenda, understanding theirs, and finding the message that connects the two.
Because sometimes saying what you really want can feel uncomfortable. But it can also be incredibly disarming. It can clear up misunderstandings, repair damaged relationships and stop us wasting time talking around what everyone already knows.
Honest, reflective and straight from the heart.
Off my chest and off the cuff.
Welcome to Off Track.