Do you find yourself saying "yes" when every part of you wants to say "no"? If you constantly put other people's needs ahead of your own, struggle to set boundaries, or feel responsible for everyone else's emotions, your people pleasing may be more than a personality trait. It may be a survival response rooted in childhood trauma.
In this episode of the Breakdown to Breakthroughs Podcast, trauma-informed life coach Lisa A. Romano explains the psychology behind the fawn response, one of the most misunderstood trauma responses. You'll discover how growing up in unpredictable, emotionally unsafe, or narcissistic family systems can teach children to survive by becoming agreeable, hypervigilant, and overly responsible for others. Lisa also shares a practical daily strategy to help interrupt automatic people pleasing and begin reconnecting with your own needs.
People pleasing isn't a sign of weakness. It's evidence that your nervous system learned to survive by protecting important relationships at any cost. Healing begins when you recognize that your needs, emotions, and boundaries deserve the same care you've always given to everyone else.
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