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Aug 18
45m 49s

The Joy of Giving Fewer F*cks

Jo Piazza
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What happens when good girls grow up and stop apologizing? For generations, women have been rewarded for being agreeable, being accommodating and being grateful for what they have instead of asking for more. And yet many women reach a certain age and find themselves less interested in being nice. Our guest is comedian, storyteller, and longtime public r ... Show More
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