Every relationship faces rupture — but the skill of repair is getting lost. Counselor and author Debra Fileta joins Dave and Ashley to talk about her new book People Skills and why loving difficult people well is one of the most important things we can do. She unpacks the rise of "cut-off culture," why we're too quick to label people narcissists, how to set ... Show More
Nov 2025
episode 5: marriage beyond your pinterest board + honest q&a
hi everyone welcome back or welcome to the as you are podcast! this episode I talk about a few things I’ve learned in the last 2 years of being married and the truths behind marriage and things to prepare for beforehand, such as communication, love languages, unlearning, healing ... Show More
39m 54s
Sep 2022
Having Sex Without Feeling Guilty
On this episode we are answering the question: How do I approach the subject of wanting to have sex to my exhausted wife? My wife is exhausted, up with the kids, keeping the house clean, etc. How can I approach the topic of wanting to have sex with her in the midst of all of this ... Show More
15m 2s
Feb 2022
Christian Men Answer Your Q's About Love, Romance, and Sex
Send a textEp. 064 - We're bringing in the men to answer your questions. This is a special day and it calls for a special episode. Today we're hearing from Kristen, Zack, Bethany and Dav. They're bringing us some married wisdom about all things love, romance, dating and sex. Whet ... Show More
39m 14s
Dec 2023
Guilt, Relationships, & Your Best Friend’s BF
You ask, we answer.
In this episode, we’re answer your DM’s like:
—What to do when your friend is dating someone you don’t think she should be dating
—How to get over guilt & shame from mistakes
—Handling conflict & hard relationships
—Waiting on a ring when you feel ready befo ... Show More
56m 35s