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Jul 21
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122: Can you change who you’re attracted...

Novara Media
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Former Vogue agony aunt Annie Lord joins Ash and Moya to talk about what happens if you let go of your ‘type’ and allow your romantic ideals to change. Her debut novel, The Project, is out now. (NB: Annie recommends Sharon Olds’ poetry collection Stag’s Leap.) Plus: advice for a man who’s feeling romantically jaded.

Send us your dilemmas: ifispeak@novaramedia.com
Music by Matt Huxley.

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