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Jun 23
1h 5m

S22E20: Love Hard On Purpose w/ John Kim

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick
About this episode
We're getting real today...because building the type of connection that's real and honest takes us looking at love differently. We're joined by John Kim aka The Angry Therapist who challenges the traditional, views of loves, arguing for a more grounded approach that's more realistic. We're discussing the reasons his definition of a healthy relationship has c ... Show More
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