In this very special episode of Naked Beauty, I had the privilege of talking to my grandfather, Calvin George Kemp, about his being 102 years old. He shared his experiences growing up in the segregated Vine City in Atlanta, Georgia. He explained how his father and other elders sheltered local children from the harsh realities of racism, and raised him in a community of Black people where he felt comfortable and safe. Things changed after he was drafted into the United States military, and he faced encounters no one should have. My grandfather, a brilliant and accomplished man, talked about rising in the ranks and fighting for the right to apply his skills and brilliance in Okinawa, Guam, and a host of other countries.

We talked about his memories of historic moments in American history that most people would only learn about in history books. My grandfather was open about the emotional toll of his experiences, including the joy of meeting my grandmother, who inspired him to step up his style. This conversation was a lovely reminder that “acting one’s age” is a choice, and that you can have a full and interesting life, so long as you commit to it. This conversation was intimate and revealing, and I’m excited to share his wisdom on how he’s managed to live a life filled with adventure and love for over a century.

Tune in as we discuss:

(0:10) Life at 103 Years Old

(1:20) What His 20’s Were Like

(1:50) 1940s Pop Culture

(3:30) Growing Up In Segregated Atlanta

(5:55) His Being Drafted Into The Military

(9:40) Encountering Mounting Segregation In The Military

(17:08) Initially Feeling Embittered By Racist Experiences

(21:44) Memories of Historic Black Events

(22:35) Voting For President Barack Obama

(26:40) Meeting His Wife of 45 Years

(27:30) Tips For Having A Long And Happy Marriage