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Why AI Is Telling You to Break Up | Soci...

THE ART OF CHARM
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Why is AI so quick to tell people to break up? AJ and Johnny unpack what relationship advice culture gets wrong — and why outsourcing hard conversations to Reddit, group chats, or AI can quietly weaken trust. The real problem usually isn’t conflict. It’s avoidance. This episode breaks down why honesty feels risky, how emotional bids and validation build in ... Show More
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