Modern dating has changed and so have breakups. In this episode of Said In Therapy, we unpack the rise of the “emotional disappearance”: situationships, avoidant attachment, the slow fade, ghosting, and why so many people detach the moment things start feeling real. If you’ve ever&...
May 2026
Your Attachment Style Is Not Your Personality
You found the label. You took the quiz. You know you're anxious, or avoidant, or somewhere in between. So why does nothing actually change?In this episode, Iman Tohami breaks down how attachment theory, one of the most useful frameworks in psychology, became one of the most misus ... Show More
11m 36s
Jan 2026
Things I Wish Someone Had Told Me About Healing
Healing doesn’t stop hurting just because you understand it.I recorded this episode from a place I don’t talk about often — the beginning of my training, when I lost someone I loved and learned, very quickly, that insight doesn’t protect you from pain.In this episode, I share how ... Show More
14m 9s