In this episode, we reflect on the tender and often misunderstood topic of forgiveness, what it is, what it isn't, and why it's central to finding freedom in Christ. We talk honestly about how resentment and unforgiveness can quietly build in the heart, often as an attempt to protect ourselves from further pain. We also acknowledge how difficult forgiveness can be, what to do with the cry of our hearts when we have been wounded, and how to entrust it to God when we don't yet feel capable of forgiving. Friends, forgiveness does not strip us of our identity, it affirms who we are in Christ. Even in the deepest places of hurt, we find hope because of the loving presence of a God who never abandons us in our pain.
Heather's One Thing - Greatness of the Lord by Brooke Ligertwood
Heather's Other One Thing - The Franciscan University Community
Sister Miriam's One Thing - Heather's Battle Cry Playlist
Michelle's One Thing - Congratulations to Indiana University for winning the championship!
Michelle's Other One Thing - The Correspondent by Virginia Evans
Other Resources Mentioned:
Forgiving as Unity with Christ: A Journey for Healing Resentment and Relationships by Dr. Robert Enright
Announcement:
Our 2026 Lenten book study will be "The Way of Trust and Love" by Fr. Jacques Philippe. Scepter Publishers has offered 15% off with the code ABIDE15. They also offer an ebook version as well. We will announce more information about the study in the coming weeks!
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Quotes to Ponder:
"Ultimately, we can really forgive people only because Christ rose from the dead; his Resurrection is the guarantee that God can cure every wrong and every hurt." (Fr. Jacques Philippe, Interior Freedom)
Resentment attacks our vital forces and does us much harm. When someone has made us suffer, our tendency is to keep the memory of the wrong alive in our minds, like a "bill" we will produce in due time to demand settlement. Those accumulated bills end up poisoning our lives. It is wiser to cancel every debt, as the Gospel invites us to. In return, we will be forgiven everything, and our hearts will be set free, whereas nurturing resentment toward others closes us to the positive things they could contribute to us." (Fr. Jacques Philippe, Interior Freedom)
Scripture for Lectio:
"Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, "Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother who sins against me? Up to seven times?" Jesus answered, "I tell you, not just seven times, but seventy-seven times!"" (Matthew 18:21-22)
Sponsor - Blessed is She:
"Who do you say that I am?"
Jesus didn't ask this because He was uncertain of His identity. He asked because we often are.
The disciples had walked with Him. They had seen the miracles. They had heard the teaching. And still, when the question was asked, many hesitated. Because proximity to Jesus does not automatically mean intimacy.
So often, our understanding of God is shaped by what we've absorbed over time—what we were taught, what we experienced, what others modeled for us. And without noticing, we begin to believe stories that aren't true.That God is distant. That He is easily disappointed. That love must be earned. That holiness requires perfection.
But Jesus does not leave us guessing. He tells us who He is: I am the Light of the World. I am the Bread of Life. I am the Good Shepherd. I am the Way, the Truth, and the Life...
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This Lenten devotional walks through the "I AM" statements of Jesus in the Gospel of John and is written to lead you out of assumptions and into encounter.
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Timestamps:
00:00 Blessed is She
01:30 Intro
02:16 Welcome
03:25 Scripture Verse and Quotes to Ponder
06:13 Repentance Leads to Freedom
07:53 Forgiveness is Hard
09:41 How Do I Forgive When I Don't Have the Capacity?
13:27 Modeling Repentance in Our Lives
17:35 Being Honest with Ourselves Can Be Painful
24:28 Sitting in the Pain and Setting Boundaries
29:34 Reflection Questions on Forgiveness
38:03 One Things