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Dec 30
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What Actually Matters in the First 3 Yea...

Erin Hyer
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Send us a text After more than 35 years of sitting on floors with babies and toddlers - and walking alongside thousands of mothers - I’ve learned something that still surprises people. The children who thrive in the first three years aren’t raised by parents who do everything “right.” They’re raised by adults who stay in sync — who notice, respond, and adju ... Show More
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