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Dec 5
51m 29s

Listener Mailbag: Soft Mandarin Broke My...

MANDARIN MONKEY
About this episode

Friday mailbag time. Chinese and English together, as always.


Today you get listener stories about:

• Stress gestures that looked like a love confession

• Soft Mandarin that sounded like poetry underwater

• Motivation, guilt, discipline and VR boxing

• Ten minutes of bus auntie story with zero context

• Scooter fails in Taiwan and panic Mandarin

• Sounding fluent while saying nonsense

• Noodle theft in a Bristol flat

• Turning passive vocab into active speech


We talk through:

• How to describe emotions without strange vibes

• Why quiet Mandarin feels impossible to decode

• When to push through and when to rest

• How confidence helps even if the vocab falls apart


Email your story for a future mailbag:

chat@mandarinmonkey.com


Lessons, community, and all the good stuff:

mandarinmonkey.com


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