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450: Why Women Secretly Crave to Be Clai...

Monica Yates
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The conversation most people are too scared to have, especially in today’s world…

 

You’re not crazy for wanting to be claimed. You’re not broken for craving to be pushed up against a wall, devoured, and told “𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘳𝘦 𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘦” (by a safe man). And today’s episode will explain the fact that you’re definitely not alone in these desires—there’s biology, research, polarity, and lived experience that help explain exactly why women, especially powerful women, crave this level of masculine presence and leadership.

 

INSIDE THE EPISODE:

🔥 The primal craving that most women are ashamed to admit

🔥 How equality killed polarity (and what to do about it)

🔥 The hidden cost of “doing it all” and why your body is begging to let go

🔥 How your masculine energy might be training him to stay passive

🔥 Why your desire to be dominated is actually a sign of inner safety

🔥 The hormonal ripple effect of being in your masculine all day

🔥 Embodied submission vs performative femininity

🔥 Why men are pulling away (and how you can call them forward)

🔥 What you actually need to shift if you want to feel feminine, desired, and turned on again

 

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