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This week we’re talking about living your future, dream life right now, Wintering, snow days, and… my 2026 surgery goals (yes, the tits are coming).

But the heart of this episode comes from an amazing question I was asked by a woman in the audience at my Birmingham event:

“When you’re stuck between two decisions and you can’t choose… what do you do?”

Because this kind of stuckness, deliberating, debating, thinking in circles energy? It is a HUGE energy leak & we’ve all been there.

Do I stay in this job or leave?

Do I move city or stay put?

Is this relationship right?

What is the “right” next chapter?

That stuck energy can absolutely paralyse you.

THE TWO-PART SOLUTION

PART ONE: Bring the focus back to YOU

When you don’t know the big answer yet, redirect the energy.

You might not know:

Where you want to live…
but you know you want to feel healthier and more grounded.
What your dream job is…
but you know you want more fun, more joy, more friends, more life.
Who your future husband is…
but you know you want your home to feel beautiful, peaceful, organised.

So start there.

Start with what you do know.

Pour your energy into strengthening YOU instead of obsessing over the decision.

PART TWO: What do you actually want from the change?

Instead of obsessing over the label (“new job,” “new city,” “new partner”), ask:

How would my daily or weekly life actually change?

Would you dress differently?
Would your routine be different?
Would you socialise in different places or with different people?
Would you walk more?
Go to the gym?
Work around others instead of alone?
Say yes to more invitations?

And then ask the golden question:

What elements of that dream life can I have RIGHT NOW, where I am?

THE TWO RESULTS

1️⃣ You start LIVING your future life now which attracts more of it

You can’t manifest a joyful, full, creative, connected, healthy life while living like a drained shell of yourself waiting for a sign.

Manifestation requires ACTION and (yes) a bit of delulu energy.

2️⃣ You realise you can experience so many parts of your dream life in your CURRENT reality

Suddenly the “big decision” matters less.

Because you’re already building a life that feels good now.

Live the life you want before it arrives - and you’ll be shocked at how fast it finds you.

Thank you so much for listening, find me on the gram @francescaamber & @lawofattractionchangedmylife

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See you next week,

Fran xxx

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