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Nov 17
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EP 447: Finding Love & Sharing Results (...

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This week, Mandii & Weezy sit down with Danielle Campbell and Raheem DeVaughn for an open, judgment-free conversation on HIV prevention, testing, and how to make sexual health talks feel a lot less awkward.

Danielle joins the ladies to break down the importance of PrEP, how to ask a partner for their test results without killing the vibe, why Planned Parenthood asks so many questions, and the real framework people need to feel comfortable getting tested. The crew gets into the nerves that come after you get tested, the correct way to screen for different STDs (including the ones hiding in your mouth), the reality of HPV turning into genital warts, plus a fun detour into the Top Ten Best Cities for Black Singles.

Then Raheem DeVaughn taps in to talk about being an advocate for PrEP, the conversations men often avoid around protection, and what it was like having his PCP bring up PrEP for the first time. There’s a moment about Weezy being nervous while getting tested, an ice breaker that gets interesting fast, and a spicy round of Smash or Pass that leads into a real talk on the homophobia still associated with PrEP. The group dives into how often people actually avoid condoms and how to bring up PrEP to male friends, sons, or potential partners.

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