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Nov 14
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From meltdown mayhem to calm at home wit...

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From Overwhelm to Agency: Real Support for Neurodivergent Families with Fawn

Feeling lost after a diagnosis? In this episode, I sit down with Fawn to show what calm, clear support can look like in real life.

Fawn is a single mom of three with a master’s in applied behavior analysis, a background in music, and years in trauma-informed coaching. Together, we talk about what actually helps at home and at school—without pushing kids to mask or parents to burn out. You’ll hear how she blends behavior science, nervous system regulation, and creativity to help families breathe again.


You’ll discover how to make communication feel safer (even during meltdowns), what schools often miss in IEPs, and the small shifts that turn “annoyed” into “I’m ready.” Fawn also shares the calm-first approach she uses with parents and why one graduation changed how she advocates for student voice.

If you want structure that supports rather than restricts—and a way to include your child’s interests (yes, Minecraft counts)—this conversation will give you a new path forward. What would change if your home didn’t chase perfection, and your child had a real say?


About the Guest

Fawn is a mother of three, a behavior-trained, trauma-informed coach, and a music educator who supports neurodivergent kids, teens, and their families. Through Avari Performance, she partners with homes and schools to build practical systems that honor autonomy, reduce overwhelm, and center real communication.


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Keywords: autism, ADHD, IEP, executive function, co-regulation, meltdowns, masking, ABA alternatives, college disability services, parent coaching

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