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Nov 2025
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Dear Banya: Where the Rubber Meets the R...

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It’s time for another round of Dear Banya! But first… we have to figure out WHEN is the appropriate time to start decorating for the holidays! 
We open up about how to keep a relationship connected for some Scrubbers doing a full pod binge, Tanya shares some of her experience TTC, and we try to figure out how to end a toxic friendship!

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